Please Read This Awesome Story of the Time This Guy Met Mr. Rogers

This week marks the 50th anniversary of Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood, perhaps the most perfect TV show to ever grace the airwaves. Even in this era of Atlanta and The Americans, Mr. Rogers still stands out as one of the few shows in television history to accomplish its goal every single time. That goal—teaching children emotional intelligence and to accept that they were special, that they had value, that they matter—isn’t nearly as easy as it looks. But Fred Rogers was a singularly gifted human being.

In the horrific aftermath of the Manchester bombings, Rogers’ famous quote about looking for “the helpers” flooded social media. It’s good advice, and seeing it inspired author and Entertainment Weekly writer Anthony Breznican to tell this truly wonderful story of the time he met Rogers.

A lot of people are sharing this quote after the heartbreak in Manchester. It's also the 50th anniversary of Mr. Roger's Neighborhood. 1/ pic.twitter.com/zDnTrTcJ8v

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Fred Rogers was from Pittsburgh, my hometown, and my generation grew up loving this man, who taught us to be kind above all. 2/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Fred Rogers was the real thing. That gentle soul? It was no act. 3/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

As I got older, I lost touch with the show, which kept running through 2001. But in college, one day, I rediscovered it… 4/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I was having a hard time. The future seemed dark. I was struggling, lonely, dealing with a lot of broken pieces and not adjusting well. 5/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I went to Pitt and devoted everything I had to the school paper, hoping that would propel me into some kind of worthwhile future. 6/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

It was easy to feel hopeless. One span was especially bad. Walking out of the dorm, I heard familiar music: ?Won't you be my neighbor… 7/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

The TV was playing in an empty common room. Mr. Rogers as there, asking me what I do with the mad I feel. (I had lots to spare. still do) 8/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

It feels silly to say – it felt silly then – but I stood mesmerized. His show felt like a cool hand on a hot head. I left feeling better. 9/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Days later, I get in the elevator at the paper to ride down to the lobby. The doors open. Mr. Rogers is standing there. For real. 10/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I can't believe it. I get in and he nods at me. I do back. I think he could sense a geek-out coming. But I kept it together. 11/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Almost. 12/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

The doors open, he lets me go out first. I go, but turn around. "Mr. Rogers… I don't mean to bother you. But I wanted to say thanks." 13/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

He smiles, but this has to happen to him every 10 feet. "Did you grow up as one of my neighbors?" I felt like crying. Yeah. I was. 14/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Opens his arms, lifting his satchel for a hug. "It's good to see you again neighbor." I got to hug Mr. Rogers, y'all! 15/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I pull it together. We're walking out and I mention liking Johnny Costa (he was the piano player on the show.) We made more small talk. 16/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

As he went out the door, I said (in a kind of rambling gush) that I'd stumbled on the show again recently, when I really needed it. 17/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

So I just said, "Thanks for that." Mr. Rogers nodded. He paused. He undid his scarf. He motioned to the window, & sat down on the ledge. 18/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

This is what set Mr. Rogers apart. No one else would've done this. He goes, "Do you want to tell me what was upsetting you?" 19/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

So I sat. I told him my grandfather had just died. He was one of the few good things I had. I felt adrift. Brokenhearted. 20/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I like to think I didn't go on and on, but pretty soon he was telling me about his grandfather & a boat the old man bought him as a kid. 21/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Mr. Rogers asked how long ago Pap had died. It was a couple months. His grandfather was obviously gone decades. 22/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

He still wished the old man was here. Wished he still had the boat. You'll never stop missing the people you love, Mr. Rogers said. 23/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

The grandfather gave Mr. Rogers the row boat as reward for something. I forget what. Grades, or graduation. Something important. 24/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

He didn't have either now, but he had that work ethic, that knowledge that the old man encouraged with his gift. 25/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

"Those things never go away," Mr. Rogers said. I'm sure my eyes looked like stewed tomatoes. 26/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Finally, I said thank you. And apologized if I made him late for an appointment. "Sometimes you're right where you need to be," he said. 27/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

Mr. Rogers was there for me then. So here's this story, on the 50th anniversary of his show, for anyone who needs him now. 28/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

I never saw him again. But that "helper" quote? That's authentic. That's who he was. For real. 29/ pic.twitter.com/VQ6vt6Lr3c

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017

When Mr. Rogers died in 2003, I sat at my computer with tears in my eyes. But I wasn't crying over the death of a celebrity. 30/

— Anthony Breznican (@Breznican) May 23, 2017