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Debra Fileta is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She's also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!

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Top 10 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them

“We’re getting a divorce,” she explained, with a look of disappointment on her face. Her…

5 Dating Mistakes You’re Probably Making

There are so many mistakes to be made when it comes to dating and relationships.…

Why Your ‘Type’ Isn’t Always Good For You

When I was single, I would often imagine what my future relationship was going to…

5 Dating Mistakes to Stop Making in 2020

We’re just a few days away from a new year, and with the ending of…

Why Giving Too Much Kills Relationships

I’m an expert at killing—plants, that is. No matter what I do, I cannot seem…

Don’t Bring Your Toxic Relationships Into 2019

Do you find yourself wondering if you’re in a toxic relationship? Maybe you’ve been there.…

There’s No Such Thing As Love at First Sight

A recent poll I did on TrueLoveDates.com revealed that more than one-third of voters believed…

3 Dating Truths Every Christian Needs to Know

I dusted off one of my old journals the other day. I’ll be honest – not…

10 Signs You Need Marriage Counseling

I’m well aware that counseling—specifically marriage counseling—often gets seen as a last resort. We think…

The Truth About Communication After Marriage

d-We all come to relationships with walls—barriers we possess, in need of being broken or…

Codependence Is Not Oneness: What Christians Get Wrong About Relationships

Many people believe they have fallen in love, only to realize their “love” is based…

Don’t Get Married Because You’re in Love

“They’re just so in love …” There’s a disturbing trend that’s sweeping our culture: people getting married because…

6 Reality Checks of Marriage

I had a set of unrealistic expectations going into marriage. I was in my early…

How to Pray for Your Love Life (When You Don’t Have One)

It’s hard to pray for something—or someone—when you have no idea whether or not they…

The Biggest Reason Social Media Could Be Killing Your Relationships

I really like social media. In fact, I’m a huge fan of Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and…

Guys, Here’s How to Ask Out a Girl Without Being Creepy

There is nothing creepier than telling a woman God told you, “we should be together”!…

The Best Age to Get Married

I once heard about a wedding that was performed for a man and woman in their…

Why Aren’t Christian Singles Dating?

In the last post from #TheDatingScene blog series, I reported that over 53 percent of singles…