Before You Just Quit, Ask These Questions

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When is it OK to Quit?

Quitting isn't always a bad thing. Read More

[Life 201 is a weekly advice column headed by pastor, counselor and RELEVANT Podcast member Eddie Kaufholz. Eddie answers questions and gives advice on issues you want to hear about. Email your questions to] Read More

3 Questions to Ask Before You Quit Your Job

How to know when to stay and when to go. Read More

How to Know When to Walk Away

Whether it's a relationship or a job, knowing when to quit and how to do it well makes all the difference. Read More

I’ve been meaning to quit smoking. The attempts started about six months ago. I was in Nepal, carefree and smoker-friendly. (Traveling to other countries and exploring new places always seem a bit more adventurous when you smoke but don’t ask me why.) A friend of mine, who takes his actions seriously and lives about as straight as an arrow, desperately wanted me to quit this filthy little habit. He said, “Heather, if I smoke a cigarette will you quit?” And I whimsically said “yes.” He smoked, I laughed, and then I broke the promise that night.