After a tough break-up, it's important to do things that make you happy. It's all part of carving out your new identity for yourself, rediscovering who you are as a single person and creating new memories that are independent from some of the painful, rose-tinged ones of you and your ex. So you might want to learn how to play a new instrument. Or, perhaps, take up judo or yoga. Or, maybe, you'll do what this New Zealand man did and build a secret bunker in the house of your ex—complete with food, trap doors and peep holes. The important thing is that you're doing things that help you cope and move on. Nobody can judge how you choose to do that. Except for maybe that last one about building the bunker, in which case a judge will sentence you to jail ... Discuss
You have heard the old saying, that the only thing constant about life is change. Change, change and more change. Or for better use of words, let us use the word transition. Transition—it’s the inevitable situations that we find ourselves in on a constant basis. It may be friends, family members, professions, houses, cars and even new hairstyles, we find ourselves facing change. However, it’s not a bad thing, as long as we learn how to handle our transitions. Read More