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Dating Is (Seriously Not) Easy

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Exploding the big myths about finding love. Read more

A Cheap Date for Valentine's Day

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How to make Valentine's Day great without breaking the bank. Read more

More than "Damaged Goods"

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Why messing up sexually doesn't have to be the end of purity. Read more

How to Get Out of a Toxic Relationship

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  • Relationships Are Painful and Worth It

    Tennyson might have been correct when he said “it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,” but that skirts the fact that it is certainly more painful to have loved and lost than to have never loved. It is love that makes goodbyes so hard, so painful. ...

  • Being Single with Intentionality

    Glow-in-the-dark Putt-Putt, laser tag, make-your-own ice cream sundaes and skee ball. A teenager’s dream, right? The funny thing is, these activities are not a part of a teenybopper’s weekend schedule—they are actual events I have attended as an adult in singles’ ministry. While I have been reluctan ...

  • Forgive Us, For We Know Not What We Do

    I haven’t talked to my dad in months. We had an argument. He said things. I said things. We both went over the line and we haven’t talked since. Literally seconds after our altercation, I knew what I said hurt him and I was wrong for saying what I did, so I wrote him an e-mail apologizing for just t ...

  • A Silent God

    The call came on September 11th, 2007. My wife Ginnie and I were sitting at home watching a Jet Li movie and fighting off the nagging voice that we should really have been doing homework. We were both burnt out with school, a fact that was evident because Ginnie actually agreed to watch a Jet Li mov ...

  • The Story of St. Valentine

    February 14th is coming up. To me, this means one thing: the return of candy hearts. I love those things—candy and conversation, all in one. Whether you’re a fan of edible, culturally relevant ("fax me") sentiments or not, February 14th is sure to bombard you with plenty of red, pink, he ...