America's Culture of Criticism

Are we too focused on finding faults that we let critique get in the way of celebration?

It was tempting for anyone to get caught up in the politics around the recently released Mitt Romney Florida fundraiser video, which included the presidential candidate’s now-infamous comment about the 47 percent of Americans who don't pay any income tax (and therefore, according to Romney, don't "take personal responsibility for their lives"). Focusing on the politics, however, often means focusing on the Other—“those people.” Those in various tax brackets (whether rich or poor), those who want to address the economy in a way that doesn’t make sense to you, those who vote for the “other” party.

We are also becoming a culture that's much quicker to criticize small setbacks and failures than it is to praise small steps forward.

But rather than ask ourselves what the 47 percent comment says about Mitt Romney (or about the people who don’t pay income tax), maybe we should be asking what such a mindset says about our culture—about us. Because it seems to be indicative of a way of seeing others that systemically breeds hurt, frustration and anger. Take, for instance, how we tend to use the word “work.” We comprise a culture that's big on demanding that people work really hard at some things, but not at others. We say we value hard work, but what we mean by that is we value work that produces sweat, that turns hours of our days into "hard-earned cash," that keeps the machine going. We also love to blame people who aren't doing that kind of hard work—we blame them not just for their own problems, but for our problems too.

We are also becoming a culture that's much quicker to criticize small setbacks and failures than it is to praise small steps forward. We don’t want to get involved when people need a hand moving in a positive direction—after all, "those people" need to figure out how to do it themselves, so the lessons stick—but we will fall all over ourselves to get involved when we deem some sort of punishment is in order.
This kind of inconsistency shows up in our history too. Americans often celebrate and revere the best of history on a national level, while neglecting to weight the effects of each individual’s personal history. Too often, we fail to acknowledge that where someone grew up and went to school matters; who believed in them and offered sound advice matters; how they were treated when they messed up matters. And you can’t make a fair assessment without looking at the full story.

Let's work every bit as hard at love and compassion as we do at our factories and corporations.

America prides itself on always catching that first wave of change. We’re a culture that loves to carry on about innovation, progress and the "promise of the future," but doesn't seem to grasp the powerful role hope plays in the lives of individuals. We’re quick to write off the futures of so many, and therefore we’re stingy with our hope—we hoard it rather than multiplying and sharing it.

No, this society doesn't want to really consider an individual's past or future. It doesn't want the whole story, let alone the possibility of a new story. It just wants to glance much-too-briefly at a person's here and now, and then take that information and use it to create unfair, misshapen, categorical lumps that misrepresent truth—not just about the group at large, but about each individual who’s been dumped there.

So we want to be a nation that's characterized by "hard work," by changing the course of history with honest sweat and blood? Let's work every bit as hard at love and compassion as we do at our factories and corporations. Instead of complaining about our social ills, let's throw our heads and hearts and creativity into a solution—and then celebrate after the good work has been done. Let's put in overtime listening to and encouraging others, and then let's value every rich reward that has nothing to do with our bank accounts. If we really admire hard work, we will admire this version of it—the truly hard work of life.

If we want to be a nation that reveres history, let's be a nation that considers every thread of it, celebrating what's beautiful but also mourning what's damaged and broken. Let's work together to repair those damaged parts, and let's not promote things like progress and a better future unless we're willing to go all in. Let's make it big and inclusive enough for everyone—a whole group of individuals moving forward together.

If we're not ready to do all that, can we at least recognize all the inconsistencies in our value statements, and stop throwing around words like "work" and "hope" that we seem to believe only apply to some people, in some situations, some of the time? God calls us to a bigger, more transformative way of seeing and working in this world—a way that can be our own, if we’re ready to roll up our sleeves.

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Tduncan commented…

I believe Jon just indirectly proved the point . . . as did I.

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Anonymous commented…

Great post - I'm with you ... on my better days.

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Paula commented…

"We say we value hard work, but what we mean by that is we value work that produces sweat..."

I thought Americans valued working as little as possible for the greatest posible gain? E.g., stockbrokers, venture capitalists, etc.

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Noah Farver commented…

As a consistent blogger, and one of high criticisms this post inspired me to go say something nice for once. I believe constructive crit is extremely important. But I have to admit most people,especiallythe likes of Romney, don't have thepatienceand understanding that goes with true constructive criticism. I'm trying to say they will just do what they think is right, and oppose it on others with outtrulyhelping those people. I doubt Romney would solve that income tax problem by trying to help people understand why, he will probably just enforce it more.

Now this post might not be perfect, I'musuallythe first tocriticize, but let's take notes and look at it in a broad way.

Go encourage someone for a change.

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Noah Farver commented…

I like the part about history too. It reminds me of Martin Luther. Eeeevvveeeery single time I bring up how great he was someone has to say "he threw a Jew off a horse" or he "wrote a book about how to kill a whole civilization". Not are those very uneducated statements, and only half true, but he did much of the opposite.

Some people even think that the book he wrote was forged, which makes sense. He was outspoken, and well known, it happens to annoyingly outspoken people who are right all the time (laughs). He took on the whole Catholic church for God's sake. He wrote that we should all read the Quran too so we can understand Muslims.

Point is Martin Luther wasn't perfect but if you look at all the good things he has done vs all the bad things it's no different then with America.

It's hard to say that Luther and early American's didn't do amazing things, and that without them this world would be far worst off. We have to look at the good and the bad.

And we are Christians anyway, we should accept the fact that bad is always going to be mixed with good. We are sinners.

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